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Relationships

Therapy for pornography sexual addiction, marriage and relationship problems

    O', how the spring of love resembleth
the uncertain glory of an April day!

Shakespeare, Two Gentlemen of Verona.

Often referred to as marriage and family counseling, psychotherapy is a highly effective means of resolving relationship problems. Whether the parties involved are a married couple, an unmarried couple, an unmarried couple seeking premarital counseling, a same sex couple or a family with children, psychotherapy can have a major impact on the interpersonal conflicts that inevitably arise when two or more people share the same nest.

In many cases, a successful resolution will improve the relationship of the persons involved and can substantially improve the future course of the relationship. In some cases, relationship counseling may lead to a separation. In the case of sexual conflict or issues such as pornography or sexual addiction, a sex therapist can assist. Sometimes the couple can profit from referral to a divorce mediator. If all parties agree in the course of treatment, this kind of referral can be made.

If you suspect that you or a couple you know could use couples counseling or the intervention of a professional therapist due to their relationship or marriage problems try the following quick test:

  1. Do you frequently feel anger at your partner?
  2. Do you fight a lot?
  3. Do you often feel that you are "giving" in to your partner in order to maintain the peace?
  4. Is your relationship "difficult"?"
  5. Are you or your partner cheating?
  6. Do the kids have behavioral problems - either at home or at school?
  7. Do you have difficulty "talking" to each other?

If you answer yes to any of the above questions you may want to consider the possibility that couples therapy might be helpful.